I’ve been seeing this guy for a little while, and things have been going well. The only issue is there’s this girl in his life who has apparently been into him for years. From what he’s told me, she’s made it obvious, and even some of his friends joke about how she’s been “waiting for her chance.” The problem is, she’s still very much around. She’ll text him, comment on all his posts, and invite him to things that feel more like dates than hangouts. I’ve even been there when she gets a little too flirty in front of me. He tells me he’s not interested in her and that they’re “just friends,” but it doesn’t feel that simple. I don’t know if it’s that he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings, or if he just enjoys the attention, but he doesn’t exactly shut it down either. It’s starting to make me uncomfortable because I don’t want to be stuck in some weird situation where I’m competing with someone who’s been orbiting him for years. And honestly, it’s making me question what we even have. If h...