My wife of 8 years kept assuring me she was just overworked, but I just found out she was spending her nights with a coworker. I don't know who I am anymore.
We have been together for 10 years, married for 8. I thought we had the rock-solid, boringly happy kind of marriage. I genuinely did. For the last six months, she's been distant, always on her phone, and kept telling me how stressed her new project at work was, requiring late nights and weekend travel. I spent those nights home alone, making sure the house was spotless, handling the bills, and genuinely being proud of her dedication. Last night, I went to install a new printer at her office as a surprise and saw her company car. As I walked to her department, I saw them leaving the building together, holding hands, laughing, and getting into his car. They weren't stressed about work. They were just happy. I drove home and just sat in our garage for two hours. I didn't confront her when she got home. I just looked at the wedding photo on the mantel and realized I've been living a lie for half a year. I feel physically ill. I'm not looking for revenge; I'm just l...