UPDATE: Drunk roommate (21F) tried to kiss me, I turned her down because she was wasted, now she was hiding from me.

This is an update post, but you can find the original post here

https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/s/EVRPrtZw3N

So this was already posted in a diff sub, but it was removed by mods, so I am posting it here.
A Some of you asked for an update, so yeah… I(25M) took everyone’s advice and just sent her(21F) a simple text :
“Hey, everything’s totally fine from my side, no weirdness at all. Can we talk for a minute whenever you’re free?”
Five minutes later → knock on my door.
She looked super nervous, immediately started apologizing for “basically throwing herself at me while hammered.” I just laughed a little and told her it really wasn’t a big deal, that I only stopped it because she was way too drunk and I didn’t want things to be messy and wanted neither of us to regret it later.
Then I took a deep breath and said I actually really like her and have for months.
She went quiet for like 3–4 seconds, got this huge smile, said “wait… really?” and then basically launched at me for the longest hug ever. Told me she likes me too. And I gave her a kiss on her head and asked her out.
So… we’re going out for dinner + drinks Saturday (Today). ( She already promised no blacking out😂 and will try it out sober this time😉)
Honestly feel like I’m floating. Thanks to everyone who told me to stop overthinking and just text her—you guys saved me from months of awkward hallway dodging.
Will keep you guys updated about how my date went♥️.

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