So this happened last year. I was working as a bartender in this kinda fancy bar in LA where a lot of people come to show off. You get influencers, actors, TikTok people… that kind of crowd. One Friday night, this guy comes in with a girl. He looked like some Hollywood dude. Tall, kinda flashy, wearing expensive shit, beard perfectly trimmed, just screaming “I think I’m important.” The girl he was with was one of those types that look like they live on Instagram. She didn’t say much. He, on the other hand, was being loud and acting like he owned the place. Demanding a table that was already reserved, talking down to waitresses, trying to be funny but really just being a jerk. Then he said something to my coworker (who’s really sweet btw) like: Are your hands good for anything other than pouring drinks? She just looked shocked. I saw red. I told him, Yo man, maybe treat people like people, not like background extras in your life. He gave me that look like, you don’t know who you’re tal...
Most people would never guess that he is an introvert guy who was very shy and never really talked to anyone. He always kept to himself and never really made any friends. He was content with just being by himself. One day, he decided to go out and talk to people. He started by just saying hello to people and then he began to talk to them more. He found that he really enjoyed talking to people and he started to make friends.
He's always the life of the party, always cracking jokes and always eager to get out and about. But the truth is, he gets exhausted easily from being around people too much. He prefers quieter, more intimate gatherings where he can really get to know people. That's not to say he doesn't enjoy a good party - he just doesn't like being the center of attention. He is a great listener and people often find themselves confiding in him. He's always happy to lend a listening ear and offer sage advice.
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