I (30M) found out my father (56M) has been sleeping with my wife (28F). A while ago, I started noticing changes in how my wife and my father acted around each other. If my wife and I were in a room and he walked in, her mood or facial expression would change. I also caught him looking at her more often, seemingly for no reason. For context, my wife and I live with our son just down the street from my parents, so we spend a lot of time at each other’s houses. Over time, I noticed more. He would take every opportunity to stand close to her, and he seemed to follow her from one room to another. If she went into the kitchen, for example, he would suddenly “need something from the kitchen.” I brought up my concerns with my wife, but she brushed them off and told me I was crazy. Still, I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was going on. Eventually, I set up microphones and cameras in several rooms around the house to see what I could find out. Over the past year, yes almost year, those recordings have confirmed my suspicions—and revealed more than I expected. The recordings confirmed that they have been sleeping together. Most of it happened in the master bedroom and the living room. My father is retired, and my wife works from home. He would come over after my mother and I had left for work. One odd detail I noticed in the recordings was how quietly my father spoke, sometimes almost whispering. I couldn’t tell whether he thought he was being romantic or was just trying not to wake our child. Either way, having multiple microphones around the room still picked up what was being said. Through their conversations on the recordings, I also learned that he has been cheating on my mother from the beginning of their relationship and that he has a weird fetish. When my parents went on vacation, I was stopping by to feed their fish and one day took the chance tocheck my dads browser history on his computer. To my surprise he had been searching for porn featuring women who look like my wife. Between the audio recordings, the video footage, his browser history, and everything I’ve noticed over the past year, there is pretty much no denying. What to do with the wife is simple but what I have not yet decided are the consequences the father should face. Right now, I’m thinking the best thing to do is never allow him to see his grandchild again as thats the most simple. submitted by /u/thenewbier [link] [comments]
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