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My ex’s new gf harassing me

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Y’all… I genuinely don’t know if I’ve ever met someone this miserable.
So my ex and I broke up over 2 years ago, but we still talk here and there. A few days ago this random girl requested to follow me on Instagram. I followed her back because Im a girl’s girl and love to support girls. I thought she was pretty but had no idea who she was. Then I realized she lived in the state my ex still lives, so I asked him if he knew her. He told me to block her because he said he had a stalker…. (Should’ve been red flag #1)
So I removed her from following me because I didn’t know her. I honestly never even thought about unfollowing her even though her page was public already.
Later I noticed her commenting under my ex’s brother’s picture saying “hey sexy dm me,” so I was lowkey relieved and figured she was probably dating someone in his family. Then she posted a funny meme on her story that made me laugh, so I replied “LMAO felt this” not even realizing it was her story fr.
THAT WAS LITERALLY IT.
A couple hours later she messages me asking if I know my ex. I said yeah, he’s my ex.
Tell me why she immediately starts acting like I personally ruined her life 😭
She starts calling me a stalker… meanwhile SHE requested to follow ME first.
Then she starts saying the nastiest stuff imaginable. Calling me fat. Telling me to get a breast reduction. Making fun of my lips. Calling me all kinds of slurs. Making racist comments about my skin color. Saying my ex “dates anything.” Saying he thought he was dating a man. Just saying the most out of pocket, disrespectful things over and over. She’s literally having a convo with herself in my dms.
Then she tells me she’ll beat me up and tells me to “come outside.”
Girl… WE DONT EVEN LIVE IN SAME STATE. 😭
I saw it when I got off and if you actually read my responses I’m literally just asking why she’s mad at me. I kept saying if you have a problem with your boyfriend then take it up with HIM because I genuinely had no issue with this girl. I didnt even know she existed before this fr.
Eventually I got tired of it and stopped responding.
Tell me why she then finds me on Threads and starts messaging me there too.
Then she starts posting screenshots of our PRIVATE conversation.
Then she posts my pictures.
Then she posts my FIRST AND LAST NAME.
Then she starts making TikToks comparing herself to me.
Then she starts posting screenshots of my social media profiles.
Like… at what point do you realize you’re doing way too much?? And it’s crazy cause how you gonna be racist but do all this over a black man?!?!?
The crazy part is I feel like she wanted me to lose my mind and start arguing back so she could say, “See! I knew she was obsessed!”
Instead I just stopped responding.
If she wants to keep posting me, arguing with herself, and making TikToks about someone her boyfriend dated YEARS ago… that’s her business.
I’m just gonna keep my screenshots, report what needs to be reported, and let her embarrass herself because I’m not about to fight for a man that isn’t even mine.
I genuinely need to know…
Am I the only one that thinks this whole situation is absolutely insane?? 😭

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