I (45F), and my husband (47M) have a daughter named Andrina. Ever since she was a kid, she dreamed of having the perfect marriage, since me and husband told her of how we first met (we met in college). When she got to high school she met this guy, Zain. She brought him home, and since both of our families knew each other and this guy was really nice to Andrina we approved of him. I remember whenever she came him from school she couldn’t stop talking about him to her sister and brother. I warned her that she should not let this marriage narrative take over her life and she should focus on her studies. She listened and got straight As, or so I thought. Andrina had straight As and she and Zain got into one of the most elite private schools in the Bay Area, and we were so proud of her. Everything was perfect until one day when we got a call from the school to come immediately as there had been an incident. We were shocked to find out that Andrina got suspended for aggressively bullying her classmate, Mira who had recently attempted to do something im not going to say on here. I was ashamed to say the least, and her father and I confiscated her phone so we could look at her text messages + social media. I was shocked to find out that not only Andrina was involved, but she was the ringleader of a group of girls in her grade who were bullying her, I found out she was consistently starting drama with Mira because Zain liked her and he never liked Andrina. She also lied about this girl to her friends consistently and called her a beach and an attention wore because of this guy. There were also plans to have Mira follow one of Andrina friends and then the girls would “expose” Mira in the cafeteria for the kind of person she is + trash her book bag. I also found posts on her TikTok spam account about how Mira was a pervert, a prude, and a dumb beech. My husband and I were shocked and disgusted by Andrinas behavior, we raised our children to be open minded and to value their education first before marriage. And Andrina has always had straight As and emphasized on logic and knowledge like her father. Me and my husband talked it over and we decided to pull her out of the Bay Area private school because we want to keep her away from her victim, she’ll have no electronics for the rest of the year, and her dream trip to Santorini would be cancelled. Whe we told her she begged us not to pull her out of school and cancel Santorini, we were horriblefor pulling her out of school over a boy, and that she wished we were dead or not her real parents. I feel like a fool for not noticing this behavior sooner. I thought we did the right thing and when I told my MIL she also said we were horrible for pulling her out of that private school because she worked hard to get into it, but we think it’s best for her to stay away from her victim. We also apologized to Zains and Mira’s parents for andrinas behavior. Zain is dating Mira now. We also have booked an appointment with a psychiatrist to discuss Andrinas behavior. AITA?
NOT MY STORY 🚨‼️
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