My parents chose my sister’s clothing boutique over my daughter’s spinal surgery. Now they’ve lost everything, and I feel nothing.

A year ago, Lily had a tumor pressing against her spinal cord. We had four weeks to save her from irreversible damage. I begged my parents for a loan, offering my house as collateral. They are wealthy—Chanel, Rolexes, the whole thing.
My father looked me in the eye while eating an expensive steak and said: "We gave the $180,000 to your sister Jessica for her boutique. She deserves a better life." Jessica even told me to stop being "hysterical" because Lily wasn't dying yet.
What they didn't know was that my fiancé, David, was a senior partner managing an $800 million portfolio. He had the money all along, but he wanted to see who my family really was before we got married. He paid for everything, and Lily is healthy today.
Now, the boutique has failed. Jessica spent the money on luxury cars instead of clothes. My parents are suing their own "Golden Child" and begging me for help and forgiveness. My mother is sobbing on the phone, calling it a "one-time mistake."
I told her that forgiveness isn't a relationship. They chose a retail lease over a child's spine. I’ve chosen to live my life without them. Am I cold for protecting my daughter from people who saw her life as an elective expense?
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