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Started a business relationship with a great guy . Met his wife who I had sex with in my 20s

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As per the title .

Five years ago just before Covid I was contacted by a guy . He was looking into our services . We started doing business on a regular basis . He always paid on time .
Great customer and person,
We got to know each other .
Baseball games , bars , lunch … etc .

We became friends in many ways . I genuinely like him as a person .

A month ago we had a larger function at our local Board of Trade .

It is there that I was introduced to his wife .
As per the title . I have not seen her in decades .
We met in 1996. Saw each other a few times . Then one thing lead to another. A sexual relationship that lasted just under 1 year . We got along . I was hoping to start a relationship with her but she wanted an open relationship . She was promiscuous and told me so . She was hoping to have fun and “snag “ a professional athlete .
We went our separate ways and never had contact in almost 30 years .

Not until that event . When introduced, I could tell by her eyes that she recognized me immediately . I quickly caught on and played along that I did not know her .
We all made small talk later and she admitted bro remembering and liked seeing me . But she does not want her husband of 16 years to know of her sexual past .
They have a 13 year old daughter .
I respect her decision . It was long ago and like both her and her husband.

About a week later she creeped me on social media . Then email . Inferring things .
Basically she is nostalgic for those times and she wants to start an affair .
I did not reply.
I later received a call from her where I declined and stated my reasons .
It is not good business , plus I got to know and respect her husband .
For context ; I am in my early 50s . Single . Never married or children .

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