So this happened last year. I was working as a bartender in this kinda fancy bar in LA where a lot of people come to show off. You get influencers, actors, TikTok people… that kind of crowd. One Friday night, this guy comes in with a girl. He looked like some Hollywood dude. Tall, kinda flashy, wearing expensive shit, beard perfectly trimmed, just screaming “I think I’m important.” The girl he was with was one of those types that look like they live on Instagram. She didn’t say much. He, on the other hand, was being loud and acting like he owned the place. Demanding a table that was already reserved, talking down to waitresses, trying to be funny but really just being a jerk. Then he said something to my coworker (who’s really sweet btw) like: Are your hands good for anything other than pouring drinks? She just looked shocked. I saw red. I told him, Yo man, maybe treat people like people, not like background extras in your life. He gave me that look like, you don’t know who you’re tal...
“Hey, service is at 3. Wear something dark, she hated bright colors. I know you didn’t know her well, but it would mean a lot if you came.”
I stared at it. I wasn’t sure who it was meant for. But it felt… urgent. Like maybe they really needed someone there. And I had nothing else to do.
So, I went.
I pulled up to the church a few minutes early. Sat in the back. No one questioned me. I figured maybe it was a distant coworker or a college friend. I kept waiting for someone to say, “Wait, who are you?” But they didn’t.
The woman who had passed her name was Marion had the kindest smile I’ve ever seen. I learned about her love for jazz, her cat named Newton, and how she never let anyone leave her house without taking a cookie. I sat through every eulogy like I’d known her forever.
Afterward, during the gathering, her grandmother approached me.
“You were her friend from art class, weren’t you?” she asked.
I froze. “No, I think I got the wrong text.”
She laughed. Actually laughed. “So you’re just… here? For a stranger?”
I nodded. “Didn’t want her to have an empty room.”
She grabbed my hand and said, “Then you’re exactly the kind of person she would’ve liked.”
We sat together for hours. Talking about Marion. About grief. About weird coincidences. Before I left, her grandma gave me a small velvet pouch.
“Take this,” she said. “Marion would’ve insisted you didn’t leave empty-handed.”
Inside was a single sugar cookie, shaped like a heart.
A year later, her grandmother still sends me a birthday card. Always with a cookie recipe inside. I send her a handwritten thank you every time.
I don’t know why I went that day. But I’m glad I did.
Sometimes the wrong funeral is exactly where you’re meant to be.
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